Backslides are hard to stop when you feel like you got hit by an avalanche. Put on the deodorant and get working on all the long-term 180s you can. Now it is action time!
That's all I can do right now. I am working on them. Also GAL, which was brought up in the C session. "Well, he goes out after work and helps his friend re-fab a rental house..." The C said, so? That's a good thing. I still feel guilty sometimes about leaving the kids. I know I need to stop feeling that way. I am with them when mom is out running around, every morning and every night. If I go out and do something with my friends because the W doesn't want to be with me, I have nothing to feel guilty about.
I have made much progress and need to keep the changes going and make them second nature instead of thinking about them all the time. Keeping the M intact is best, but I won't miss this woman at all when she goes. Either she goes and my W comes back, or she goes and stays gone. That's her two choices.
