You don't need to do any research.. The time you used in doing research for this OW, should have been spent on your WIFE. if you were that concerned, then you should have either called OWH or dialed 9-1-1 and had the police go to her home and you should have told your wife about this from the getgo.

The reason why you didn't say anything is because deep down inside you knew this was wrong. Had you not, you would have had nothing to hide. does that make sense?

You need to be transparent to your wife and you need to be honest with her.

Sometimes people think that by lying or denying someone the truth, that it'll make it better. well I will tell you that that is just hogwash. It makes it worse.

So your wife wants time now, right?

Have you had ANY contact with her? how was your last interaction with her?

M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson