Good for you resisting. There have beena few times in the last couple months where I contemplated certain texts or emails, but decided to 'wait and see', and every time I was glad I didn't!
Yeah if he was talking sexual stuff to you a few weeks ago and is married now, you know you wouldn't want to be in the position his new wife is in, never knowing whoe else he might be talking to or hanging out with...you dodged that bullet!
Still I am sure it hurts, for that tiny piece of you that may have been keeping the spark of hope alive that you would one day reconcile...