I, too, see that my H seems even more unhappy when I see him than when he was home. Ds report the same thing and so does S26. Very depressed. I can't imagine that it is any better when ow and he are together.
Since I've stepped back out of the way and no longer bite on any bait there is only one person who gets to be on the receiving end of it. Wonder if she thinks she won such a prize now?
In your H's case there are two depressed people. Truly, how much fun can that really be?
