Thanks so much for breaking this down for me. I do plan on buying time, and actually have considered what I think is going to be the best scenario.
I basically want to request a mediation and ask for Shared Custody - No Support or Alimony, my lawyer doesn't think she would get it anyway since we have been married 1 year, and nothing I own like house is in her name. She also advised she didn't want child support as well.
My hope is she doesn't ask for full custody, because I think shared would be in the best interest of DD1. I am hoping when we go back we can get this stupid NO CONTACT order lifted, because if this does go to court, I don't want to be paying lawyers to send messages back and forth with her, and would hope we could maybe use a counselor or something as a mediator.
I do plan on taking my time to make the best decisions and also that gives me more time to complete all the changes I am working on now.
Last edited by knightinneed; 06/04/1007:43 PM.
M 36 W 29 Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months Daughter 15 months Bomb 4/22/10 Separated since 4/25/10 OM 6/10/10 Hopeful, but moving on
