Thanks Kissak, Is it possible that maybe the are only unhappy around us? You know, every time he sees me the quilt comes back and maybe it's subconscious but he goes into depressed mode and that's just confirming for him that he did the right thing by leaving me.

I don't know, I'm just musing here. I'm sure that he doesn't have a long face when he is with OW.....

You have a great weekend too smile

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO