From my S7 on Tues, after spending the long weekend with his dad;
S7= "Mommie, when do people die?" Me= "Ah, why do you ask?" S7= "Because, if ow dies, then my daddie will move back in with us, & I don't want to wait until I'm a teenager."
My H had been doing his best to give the impression that ow was long gone. Trying to keep himself "in there" with me, my family & friends, when....He's been living with her for 6 months & asking S7 not to tell me!!
Bowled me over.
Tells me he didn't want to get into it, because he can't break his connection from me....hasn't been able to follow thru with D'ing me & it's ruining his life. Boohoo...he makes me more than ill.
I took a couple of days to process, & am thankful to have the facts. Incredible deception to involve your child in, that I wonder about his mental state.
Just got an e-mail that he's off to Mexico to surf for almost a week, giving up his Monday to spend w/S7. I guess I am in some state of shock still & will spend the weekend getting my ducks in a row.
When I would read on this site about living with the ow, I never imagined it would be me someday, lol!
