Hopefully you are right--like being an alcoholic--half the battle is knowing you have a problem.
Unfortunately, it is too easy to go back to the same habits. We even see it here--people who successfully DB'd and then...post again in a year or so.
I'm trying to imagine this intimacy thing with another person--I thought I was doing it with X--and if that wasn't intimacy--if he didn't feel connected to me on a "deep, personal level" as he said enroute out the door--then I have quite the journey to make discovering what intimacy is.
Well, I do know, I guess. All my friends got treated to more intimacy from Aver than they ever wanted this past year.
Oh, dear, just started crying as I typed out "one year."
I better go check your thread, LFA, and find out what your "C" level GAL was! And yes, you have to make plans--I don't do well with unstructured time, and as we are twins separated at birth, I imagine you don't, either!
