NM, missed reading your posts... sorry I havent been here for you.
Take your time with dating... maybe you just need to date you! and dress for you! and enjoy you! When the time is right you will know. You are not the only one who is not really "detaching", i read the post above and realized, i say i am, and do it for a day or so but deep inside i am not.
But I am still trying... I would imagine it takes time and detaching is a practice.
