Here is another thing to consider... I don't know if the OM is still in the picture or not. I am sure that he is still married but I think my stbxw and him still talk on the phone. I have not snooped at all since september and I am not going to, just to find out.

I sent her a text just now that was about the kids and she texted back with an answer but at the end of her text she asked me "if I was doing good?" I am getting myself confused here and the more I do the more I want to just sign on the dotted line and forget about her.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final