I apologized for a lot of things and never brought up anything he did or might have done to cause me the resentment I felt - I bit my tongue on that stuff - I'll reserve that for another time because that was not the time to bring all that stuff up.
If something is bothering you then it is your responsiblity to bring it up. You will both need the tools on healthy dialouge, listening and validating each other.
You are not going into this with transparency. This creates trust issues. Be aware that this could cause your H to feel trapped, mislead, you are OK with him etc. Don't repeat the behavior that got you to this point.
Keep up the good work. It is nice to see success.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
