I chose the one less traveled by...#29

[hoosiermama]

So gaining more insight is always a good thing.

kat

it is definitely always a good thing. and rarely is it painless.

[kat727]

Please don't make me go through all 500 to find just those 50! That would be just too cruel. lol

J has been pretty nice about this. He called me twice on Wednesday after I texted about the relationship thing. Even though he asked if I was really surprised(yeah that was kind of mean in my book). That started the waterworks all over again. Then he called before bed to see if I was better. Then he texted me this morning to see if I was ok. I am so lucky to have him as a friend.

I don't know many guys that would listen to you try to figure stuff out, cry about stuff and talk about other guys. Oh except all of you guys on here, duh!

kat

[Virtually_Handsome]

(((((kat)))))
Changing the subject a bit... did you see the list of resorts? Westward Look doesn't have golf on site, I think the rest all do.

[kat727]

Did you post them on FB? I can't access it from work. Let me know.

kat

[oldtimer]

"Even though he asked if I was really surprised(yeah that was kind of mean in my book). "

Maybe he is trying to get you to take a more objective look at things to get some perspective...

[kat727]

Perhaps, I stepped back because I saw that she was going on the vacation with all of them. I didn't feel good about it and that was when I sent a message that basically said I was stepping back. Just wanted to clarify that we weren't exclusive, though I am a one guy at a time kind of gal.

I felt that there was something going on. I should have just asked him then but hindsight is 20/20.

kat

[Virtually_Handsome]

I did. I'll copy it here!
Westin La Paloma
Esplendor Resort (where they film Primal Grill) a little out of town, but might be interesting
Tubac Resort, also a bit our of town
Mariott Starr Pass... See More
Loews Ventana Canyon
Westward Look
Omni Tucson National

Tucson National, La Paloma, and Westwward Look are probably closest to me, but I figured I'd stay there too, so it doesn't matter much.

I think all of those have golf, and spa stuff.

[kat727]

Ok just a quick run down on these:

Westin 169 a night 2 doubles
Esplendor 119 Th, 103 for both Fri and Sat
Tubac 134 a night
marriott Sold out
Lowes 139 night 2 doubles
Omni 95 king AAA rate, 2 doubles 140 AAA rate
Westward Look has a couple of specials 90.35 a night with 14 day advance prepay, no cancellations/refunds or 99 with breakfast buffet included for 2 adults

Ok what are you guys thinking. go with price and then amenities or compare regardless?

kat

[oldtimer]

Kat,

I don't really know your story, I just scanned this thread and a bit of your last one. I don't know if you want an outside perspective, but if you do, let me know. I've typed and deleted a few posts to you, lol...

[kat727]

Ot sure you can post. I know you can be blunt but I will try not to cry! lol Long story short: Married for 19 years, 4 kids, this was at least his 2nd affair. Divorced 2 years ago in July. He is now engaged and living with former affair partner.

Old boyfriend K sought me out last September. He had been in an accident and didn't remember us breaking up even! Anyway, took a while to let him in, I did. Had a fun 2.5 months when he met up with old college friend with his family for long weekend. A tad jealous because she is really pretty. Didn't think much more of it until she posted stuff about their upcoming vacation on his wall. 14 people went and I kind of thought this is just because she used to be close to the family, not anything romantic with all those people(including her two kids). Ok so I was wrong. I hadn't taked to him since before the vacation. Oh and he had just said he was planning Fl family vacation.

That's it in a nutshell.

kat