Originally Posted By: timehealsall

I will not allow him to put the blame for his actions on me. I understand the role I played. I understand and can woman up to what I contributed, BUT regardless, i was not the one who strayed. HE DID.

This is excellent, Time.

Originally Posted By: timehealsall

I just want to snap out of it.

I know you do, it must be awful. Do you have any distractions to keep you busy this weekend? Friends to go out with or even come over to watch a movie with you and the kids. Sounds like you could use the shoulder of a good friend to help you keep your resolve, stay strong and let those feelings out with.

Thinking and praying for you my dear friend. PG.

Oh and PS! I so agree with CityGirls advice of going dark on him except for dealings about the kids.


I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.