You are thinking like a guy. MC isn't like taking your car into the shop, you don't just "fix" it. You didn't get to this point in a few weeks it will take time to reconcile if that is where you are headed. You will be tested, spewed on, and triggers tripped be prepared. You have a opportunity to go into this and have the marriage you both want. You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.