You are right.

What about responses for things outlined above?

Also should I say something to W about not responding to FIL?

like "I seen the text message your father sent you and noticed you did not respond back to him I know he worries about you. At the very least let him know you are OK." and maybe add "You don't need to be happy to be in a good situation. Things are good for you here in our home and he should know that"


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10