Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Finally got in contact with agent yesterday and I took care of the issues with agent.

I called W yesterday and left her a voice mail telling her I contacted agent and gave her the update about my talk with agent. I was very upbeat and talked to her like a friend. I told W many of the things CityGirl suggested. I reiterated to W that I will be moving back home. I also told W that I hadn't heard from her about the vacuuming and asked her to let me know when she will be able to do this. I was direct and kept with the topic. I finished by telling her she can call me if she has any questions otherwise I will talk to her later.

When I spoke to the agent she told me that my W seemed "stressed" when my W called her last week. Agent said my W had been calm in previous conversations but not last week. Said my W hasn't asked about apartments anymore. Agent also said my W told her that I would be moving back home. Funny how W told the agent this when she didn't respond to me about it when I emailed W about it last week. W definitely can't/won't address with me what she doesn't want to talk about...my moving back, her portion of the chores, etc.

I haven't heard back from W since I left her VM yesterday. More disrespect that she will not answer me about her cleaning house for open house this weekend. I told her that I will mow the grass and take care of the outside work for the open house but asked that she helped with the inside work. I've asked her twice now to help with vacuuming and no response from her. I won't ask a third time. If she doesn't vacuum before the open house (and I know she won't), I will tell her next week (after open house this weekend) that her unwillingness to help or at least give me the common courtesy of a reply is disrespectful to me and is unacceptable. Not sure what consequence I can do with this though. Being separated I can't force her to do much of anything. I could play her game and not do anything and let the house go to pieces but that's not standing up like a man and taking care of the responsibilities. I'll have to think on this one.