And yes, it DOES change back for hte better, but it takes TIME... a LONG TIME
I think Saffie said her husband took a year after the affair ended to actually fully own it like an adult and speak up
a YEAR... And this affair in yoru home just ended days ago... Your wife was still holding on even though OM was trying to exit.. he WAS leading her on by continuing the contact...
The OM in your situation enjoyed the ego boost your wife was lavishing on him... so he didn't want to let go of that.. he may have done so now...
Once that ENDS.. and your WIFE OWNS the end rather than carrying some torch in her imagination for months on end... THEN you can start the clock ticking and in one year your wife may be back to normal... a YEAR
