Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

Yes we are in same household, for now. I am not sure how long this will last.

I seen a TM on W phone from FIL and it read "How are things?" W has not responded to that text message.

I was told that when W got pulled into the managers office after W TM female co-worker whom she had been talking to all along and I question the advice she may be given to my W. I was told W was upset about the situation but yet when she told me she down played it.

Right now W thinks life stinks as she would put it.

According to OMW things are great. OM surprised OMW at work with a dozen roses, delivered them to her himself. The situation is still being monitored but things in their marriage seem to be going well so I will limit contact unless I hear something.

I wanted to know for those who have reconciled, during the time the sitch was bad did your WS express same feeling "ILBNILY" "can never be with you again" "we got married for all the wrong reasons" did they ever 180 since you started to piece back together and say "ILY" or "I am happy with you"...cause as of now I just can't ever see that stage happening.

I also have this lingering concern another OM will come into the picture...