After actually going on a couple dates and having another one planned, I too realized I don't want to date. At least, not yet. Some of my friends/family think I should be ready to 'move on', but we all have to go at our own pace!
I have had dreams about xH and his former OW this week. Sometimes he and I are back together, sometimes I am trying to 'beat her' at getting H, all very surreal...
