CW - Hope you are doing well, I know that you are struggling with hope for your M. We are both on about the same time line here. The thought of initiating D didn't even enter my mind and so far my H didn't do anything either. I know that your H took some steps. If he didn't would you?
Only you can decide if you want to continue standing. The D will help you get some of the financial practicalities settled, but nothing much will change with your interaction with your H since you have children, you will always have to have him in your life and see him with OW.
Maybe more detachment is needed instead. Divorce him in your mind...try to get to a point that you don't care what he does and with whom. It helps me to separate H into two different people. The old H - Love, memories good feelings. The new MLC H I don't have to care what he does, he is a stranger right now.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
