Oh and for the forgiveness part, it was something my C said to try. I think it helped me telling her that I forgave her.
The only key to the forgiveness vault that you get is your own. And yes, it certainly does feel very good to forgive someone. Liberty!
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I think the main person she can't forgive is herself.
Repeat...the only key to the forgiveness vault that you get is your own. You cannot possibly know - even begin to know - what anyone else regrets, craves release from, forgives truly. You just cannot. Leave that part of her alone. It's not yours. It's hers.
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If she can do that, then she'll be able to feel a sense of remorse. Times like that I wish she'd get some C, but I can't control that.
Perhaps. But this is not not not your call, area, business, responsibility.
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