I was just thinking that this animosity from your X could be that he still has feelings for you and he is denying it. And OW fears that. Otherwise, why can't they just be pleasant and move on with their lives. He especially does not want to have any interactions with you ---- he's afraid of what he may feel. But, he is taking it out on the kids, and that's not fair.

I am so glad that you have moved on.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim