"Wife, I can't stop you from divorcing me or carrying on your affair. You texting him in our home is disrespectful to me and my family. If you continue to do this then you will be out of the house. I will pack up all your belongings and put them in the garage."
Be prepared for spew. Hold your ground.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
