Confused and looking for advice

[hockeymom12]

I give up, I am sorry I just cannot do this anymore, I get hope and then H crushes it. Yesterday we had 2 phone conversations and a text conversation and he seemed fine, I then walk in to work this morning and go to the bank account to find that he has removed his money, (he has talked about this but we never finalized anything) So I wait until I calm down and ask him to call me, when he does he is rude and stand offish, acting like I knew this was coming, to which I replied, we talked about it but you said we would meet face to face and you never approached the subject again so I was blindsided. I stayed calm but I was crying. He just kept pushing me that I was asking for too much money from him and why did I need that much. I tried to explain it but he just does not want to even hear it, he just does not want to be responsible anymore. I then told him that I would like to remove him from our joint account since I cannot see what he is doing then I do not think he should be able to see what I am spending my money on, he said he would not agree for this to happen. At this point I stopped what I was doing told him that I was done having the conversation as it was not going in a positive direction and I told him to have a great day and ended the conversation. He then sent me an email telling me he had transferred the funds.