Anyone have a comment on how you should approach husband about accounts? How does my email sound?

Also, some other things that I think might come up in the next week that I need help with. I obviously don't know for sure if any of these things will happen but think they are possible. We are both going to a wedding next Saturday for mutual friends. My plan is just to go to the wedding (try to get there before him) and sit and then if he wants to sit by me he can but then it's not on me to do so. I'm assuming we will be sitting at the same table at the reception because the couple doesnt know we are seperated.

1) He may ask if I want to carpool. What should I say?
2) Before all this happened we booked a hotel room. Should I keep the reservation or cancel? If I cancel, should I tell WH? What if I want to stay in hotel by myself, should I tell WH?
3) How do I act at reception? Do I have conversation with WH?
4) There is a high probability that WH is going to get drunk - what if he asks for a ride home (its about an hour from where we live).
5) What if after he is drunk he asks to stay in my hotel room (if I decide to keep hotel) because he doesnt want to drive home and doesn't have anywhere else to stay?


Last edited by anned82; 06/04/10 01:39 PM.