I know that I have received wonderful advice here. Back in the 'old, old days' women's advice to one another on H affairs was to 'keep quiet and wait it out'. My grandmother did for years, until her kids were grown. My grandfather was a bit of a rounder by reputation. My WH & I have been 'dark' for 3 weeks, and he has only gotten messages to me of things that he wants through our Daughter ( like his CPAP - apparently, sweetie doesn't like his snoring either.) D is at stalemate, he's not pushing, I'm sitting quitely. Just down a bit about the lack of any communication, but as JTB put it, our communication wasn't very great at the time.
