I dont know your whole situation with the restraining order but
Just take care of yourself I would explain to neice..They understand the craziness of the MLC and if you have to leave the wedding, maybe you can celebrate with her another day I know its difficult and out of the norm but with MLC everything is out of the norm we try to keep things as "Normal" as possible for out kids and its out of our hands
one more thing just my opinion the OW didnt "get " anything but a damaged half of a man/ an insane man we had the man in his best my xh would never have picked a wife like OW in his twenties she is TRAsh--and all she got was an older man who lost everything he left for her with nothing no job, no kids,bad health, addicted to pills- a total mess and she M him what a prize I also believe if he "woke " up he would leave her in a minute I would have never picked a man like him as he is today peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
