This weeks been a hard one.I am really msiing H but def beyond needy stage.I would love for him tto be home and life to be normal but it aint gonna happen.I have learned alot this last year and looking for a job continues to b a priority. I worry about not telling him I do not want a divorce but taking the advice of the guys here that have the experience.

ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith