Had never "planned on coming", however, it could be worthy of some further investigation... There's a lot going on right now. I've had to cancel a work trip to stay back w/the boys, etc...
Head in Hands? LoL
You are killing me!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I'm boycotting changing D18 to D19 in my signature... Even though she is really D19. It makes me feel so old! Like a reminder that I have a high school GRADUATE! Yikes!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Doesn't take long to sink to new levels on my thread!
I've been so productive this am. My boss thinks I'm amazing. LoL He is easy...
My BFF's daughter's grad party is this evening... so, I'm helping w/the set-up this afternoon, and then attending it for awhile. THEN, more house shopping, THEN, dinner, THEN, home to make sure my boys are resting up for soccer tomorrow!!!
I talked to my D attorney last night, and it made me anxious. I'm all good now, though... It's just starting to become very real. And, I choose to smile through it!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
MF, I totally understand why you'd never want to do anything to a house ever again! In fact, that's what took so long finding a house here. We were just tired of remodeling and wanted something move-in ready. We found several houses we loved BUT they needed bathroom and/or kitchen remodels. Seeing as how I just remodeled our master bath in ANC just to sell the house, no thanks! I've only painted the bedrooms here and had the downstairs carpet replaced. Luckily I like the colors in all the living spaces so left it as is. The downstairs bath needs to be redone because its so ugly but I'm not going to worry about it.
Yay for fun weekends! GAL is the name of the game. You need time off from being Mom so you can just be MF!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
I just had an amazing Friday night, and Saturday... Just ordered pizza for the my boys and their friends, and will relax a bit, and hit the hay. I'm going to see Fergie play in his pipe band tomorrow in a parade. YEA!!! They are so fun.
We're narrowing down the home search, and my Dad is itching to spend some money. STILL waiting on final numbers from my tax attorney, to pull the trigger on the new house. It is just beautiful, though. I love it. And, my Dad says he would rent it out, if I decide I want to do something else in a year or so...
Everyone enjoy their weekend!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
MF, just wanted to clarify that I am truly happy that you are able to face this divorce by making the best out of the situation. Like I said on my thread, you are "embracing" it- like how Flowmom was "embracing change!" unless I am misunderstanding. If I end up divorcing, I will follow your example and change my attitude! Thanks for the inspiration!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
