I too am DBing, and to me it looks like you're doing all the right things. One of the most painful, hardest things I've had to learn is PATIENCE. I'm still not an expert, but I'm learning as I go along. I've found that I've become a stronger man than I've ever been in my life. I'm still hurt, but I handle it better. I get angry, but I handle it better. I'm doing the same things you're doing right now....and at this point I can do nothing else except be patient. Good luck to you and yours :-)
