I haven't visited here in a while, and that's the best news around. Not that I don't love your guys!
Logging back on, I don't recognize a great deal of names......sad, broken people in the wake of the worst practical joke that nay peron can play on another.....I'M NOT HAPPY!....YOU'RE NOT EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE.........blah, blah, blah...I want a divorce.
My divorce was final May 6th, and some marriages like mine, should NOT be saved. It took me four long years to get there.
BUT....of course, you know, she will not go away. I have my annual training for the Reserves in July. I told her, as the custodial parent, who I pay 3K/mont to, that I would not be available those two weeks.
She shoots back that she wants me to pay for "child care" for the time the kids were supposed to be with me those two weeks. S12 is at a camp from 9-3 daily, two daughters 20 and 18 get out of work at 3 as does XW, and she wants "child care" money!
My attoorney nearly died laughing. He said: "At the end of the day, all the court cares about is if you're paying support. You could walk away tomorrow. She wanted to be the custodial parent, so let her deal with it" Of course, my son and D18 are with me two days a week and every other weekend, so virtually half the time. I pay her support an hour after my checks are direct deposited...The funny (not haha, but ironic funny) part of this is she gets half of my military retirement, but is breaking my orbs about training.
I think if she died, she would still be giving me a hard time from the "next life" LMAO!
