oh heck no!! That would surely bring trouble from X. Now way would I do that to niece, BF, or me! Anyway. I've been pretty upset about this whole thing. Niece wants me there, I don't want to miss a minute. But because of X's cruelty, selfishnes, insanity, and my stupidity, I can only go to the wedding. (OW will be there for reception and dance) So the other day I called the county attorney and asked about the restraining order. He said if I'm there and OW shows up I have to leave. I said "even if it's MY niece" he said yes. GRR So Now I'm worried. I don't trust X and her. What if she's there, I don't see her and they call the law. I don't want to miss a momement but is it worth the risk? Now I don't know if I'm going to go. Don't know if I should. BF says not too. Afraid that X is just crazy enough to do this.
I talked tabout it to my x sister in law the other night. She doesnt think he would do that, but she didn't think we'd get divorced either. She thinks th bottom line to all of this is that he's just p*ssed of because I didn't come running when he called me crying last time. I told her I don't think so, it's just cruel what he is doing. I told her, they got what they wanted. We are divorced, he got his OW, she got him. They have they're life together. She got my H, my family, my life. And for one day they can't be human enough, have a heart and let me see my niece of 22 years get married. I don't understand how people can be so selfish.
Tanks for listening all.
was theotherhalf M43 H43 M22 T25 MLC/OW bomb 4/07 Hmoved out 8/07 D6/09 Still trying to accept and move on...
So Now I'm worried. I don't trust X and her. What if she's there, I don't see her and they call the law. I don't want to miss a momement but is it worth the risk? Now I don't know if I'm going to go. Don't know if I should. BF says not too. Afraid that X is just crazy enough to do this. 
