Gatsby, perhaps your H knows how much you despise that girl so he didn't want to tell you that she was here!
Yeah, that's kind of it. Another betrayal of sorts. If someone who had been pursuing ME our whole marriage up and visited me, I'd feel like I would mention it with humor. "Oh, Ben's visiting this weekend. Heh heh." But not saying anything makes it more important than it is.
I do think P's idea that it didn't fit with our 'moment' makes some sense. I can see that.
I hope he writes tomorrow something just pleasant or asking how he can help me so I can just not respond. Or I could say "You wish."
