When the separation happened, I told myself that I would not act until the six month mark, then I would evaluate the situation and decide how to proceed. I feel a tiny bit of pressure from that self-imposed deadline, but I realize that I don't have to be bound by that.
Well it's like the timelines that contractors give when building a new house...they estimate that it will be done by a certain time but then inevitably, other factors start to get in the way and the deadline gets set back! You wouldn't want to move into that house without the kitchen or staircases completed, even though JUNE 30 was the proposed move in date!
But what does "evaluate the situation at 6 months" mean...it isn't to necessarily mean file for D, right? Or am I misunderstanding?
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I mentioned my concerns about not being able to physically control S to H, and he basically blamed me for it because S hadn't gotten enough exercise (due to circumstances mostly beyond my control).
Any chance your H also could have felt a little guilty that he isn't there to help you so he blames you instead?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
