You have some good points there. I agree not all MLC'ers are the same. My MLC had angry issues. I don't know if you have read the book "Men In Midlife Crisis" by Jim Conway, my ex fits it to a tee!!! All the way back to where he never felt the love of his Mother & his Dad didn't know how to show him love. I don't know about a WAS vs MLC, I've only dealt with MLC. I didn't know it then but I saw my ex in MLC 2 years before he met ow & if she had not come along & pursued him, I know without a doubt he would still be here. He just happened to get involved with a sociopath.
Hang in there, you are doing great! Sorry I just don't have answers for you, every sitch is different but also there are so many that are similar.
