I am not trying to be flip here.

I think M is terribly important.

I am just pointing out that if you try to save your M and are unsuccessful, it's still a win if you live a good life and find happiness.

The only way it's not a win is if you stay stuck in some form of grieving (and most people won't do that), or if you choose to live in fear or seek to escape from what you are going through by entering a rebound R,

In short, as long as you don't give up living or give in to weakness, in the end ... it's a win.

Last edited by TimeHeals; 06/04/10 03:50 AM.
M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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