http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200810/the-art-now-six-steps-living-in-the-moment

I see your post, P. Thanks, that could be. I didn't think of it. It probably did mean very little. I can't let her get to me now.

I've got nice music on and I just read the above article. It's very helpful to me. (All Buddhist ideas are-- life is suffering.) Might be helpful to you.