oh, I'm so sorry!! I think what you learn from this, among other things, is that you trust your instincts, your perceptions. if something is whispering that "something's amiss here," trust your gut. these lessons suck, I know...but to have this kind of pain without learning from it would be such a waste.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
