Oh and for the forgiveness part, it was something my C said to try. I think it helped me telling her that I forgave her. I think the main person she can't forgive is herself. If she can do that, then she'll be able to feel a sense of remorse. Times like that I wish she'd get some C, but I can't control that.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.