No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[pigskin]

So I told her that I needed an apology from her. Not as a way to place blame, but as a way to start the healing and re-establish trust between us. I said the apology was something I needed to hear from her so I could start feeling more comfortable around her especially since she was hanging around so much. She said she "understood". Whatever that means.

I told her again though that I forgave her for what she had done and I needed that for the trust issues.

I don't know man, sounds a bit to me like one of those dads screaming at their son on the baseball field when it is obvious the kid has no desire to be there and is only there because dad signed him up.

I don't think you can ask for an apology. You will only get a fake one.

Never tell anyone you forgive them without them asking for your forgiveness.