WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

I don't blame SIL.. H has pushed OW on them from the beginning to legitimize his affair...get their acceptance... Tough to stop something being shoved down your throat by someone you love..,

I don't contact her first anymore... Only repond briefly when she contacts me...

D3 has been a holy terror the last few days... Pushing her limits at every opportunity... Keeps refusing to go to bed and doesn't want to sleep alone... Makes it hard for me to pry the reins from my mom's controlling hands and get things done after D3 bed time...

I'm trying to stand fully on my own and handle things... They don't make it easy for me... They don't understand the changes in myself (D3 is too young obviously) but my mom is really resisting my changes. My changing from relying on her means she has to change too. She'd rather stay in her safe comfort zone...