Bar is Open come on in!

[Buffet]

so I have been checking in on threads and commenting here and there but not really adding anythng to mine. So here goes!

Nothing new except sadly the craziness with XW continues: taking personal care items from the house, crazy yelling, barging into the home and what not are the norm with her. Sprinkle in a litte "i want to reconcile (but still want to keep my boyfriend)" and that about sums it ups.

However---in a big change of pace and much to XW detriment I finally took the boxing gloves off with her a little bit (not literally:))Thru attorney and the court have gotten the order that forced me to come to the old homke while my new home was being built to be removed---ideally not the best for S2 but the break ins and yelling matches that she was instigating were not either. So now effective tomorrow I can stay elsewhere and she will not be able to waltz in and try to start problems.

She is plenty pissed by this but she is getting what she asked for (and deserves) the judge actually told her L that she needs to "cool it" and that she is "asking for worse" so now there is a pattern established with the court!!

Another gut shot here as well---XW and OM are planning on getting married as soon as they can and are even looking at going to the same honeymoon resort as we went to on our honeymoon 5 years ago.....I know because apparently XW sent away for some info and when they looked up her name they sent info via e-mail to my e-mail address that was on file! Stupid XW but also hurtful to see that as well. I mean there are only like what 1 million resorts out there and you have to go to that one.

Ridiculous! As I am typing this I am realizing that it is much more fun to reply to your threads than to type on mine, not sure if that is a good thing or not (probably not!) but it seems more light to kinda joke with you guys who are way ahead of me it seems than it is to rehash my crap...