But that's the thing DLS, he doesn't want to be my husband. I think he only wants to help, to do the "right thing" and for his own sake. But not for mine. If WH cared about me, he wouldve wanted to go to therapy to figure out where we went wrong.
I can only assume he never loved me and wasn't happy with me for a long time to be so confident about his decision now. Or he met someone or has OW to know he'd rather be with other women than me. So basically what we had for the past 12 years meant squat to him. Or he wouldve wanted to get that back.
Ummm and you never answered my question... Do I know you?