As for your R, I don't think you need to "talk" about it yet. Maybe increase the physical suggestions and then just do it. See what happens. Then if she puts you off, that's when you have the R talk.
Sometimes actions speak louder than words.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.