I am so sorry Gatsby!! At least you have done the very best thing so far in case of an A and that is to have mostly NC!
Are you going to confront him?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004