Hi Newmama--

Yes, about the credit cards. Basically, it was a mutual decision that was planned to use several credit cards to remodel and there was a plan to pay them off. Basically in my email yesterday I said he could pay them from his account. I'm not sure if I should be taking more responsibility.

And you are right! I really love the way you put it. I am being very business like and not rude at all. So glad I have you guys to put it into perspective or I would go crazy!

I guess I just miss him - I keep hoping that those little thigns mean something.