My Husband Just Left Me

[newmama]

I also spent most of the day feeling really guilty. I felt guilty because he was trying to be nice in his email and I feel like I was mean and I feel bad. I don't know why I feel bad but I do.

I get this and have been there and it is messed up, isn't it? But being too nice is enabling and almost saying "it's ok that you are doing this." Being too mean like saying "you are an %$#@! I hate you!" would burn bridges. But being business like is still being civil and polite. Just think- if you were the one to leave your H, wouldn't it strike you as strange if he was acting all friendly with you as you screwed his life over? Also, wouldn't you respect him less if he was too much of a pushover?

Just my opinion- but I wanted to say I get the guilt!

Yeah meeting at the bank will be hard. Arrive in separate cars. Get in, get out.

I don't get what you mean about the credit card thing...do you mean should you help pay for it?