Piano that is a very good deed you have done for your WH! Seriously! Very loving!

OK well if you want to get around to asking your WH's dad why he left, I recommend saying something like

"I am sure there were some factors in your life that we don't know about, but would you please share why you weren't in WH's life when he was a kid?" ok that might be toooo sugar coated!!! but you see the point.

fyi I am totally going to be drafting what I want to say to WH when the time comes bc I am pretty blunt and put words in his mouth when I am upset!!!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004