OK fyi S was coughing because he has a lingering cold (not just like an everyday thing) and he has medicine if he has issues with wheezing so that is why I told WH. (it's like I feel bad for contacting WH EVER because it is violating my "dark" boundary. I want to be consistent! But I will need to still communicate about S.)

Now here is what I was thinking about the texts from WH to check on S. I am not sure how hard I need to be about them. I see that he was asking since S has been sick. Is there an advantage to me replying with a little more than just "Yes he is fine" Or "Thanks! see you then" since it has been 5 weeks of me employing this 180 of before? Like should I change strategies a little?


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004