I plan on being as cautious as a long tailed cat in a room full of rocking chairs can be smile I am committed to listening, but I definitely have some questions that need to be answered, or perhaps more accurately some feelings of my own that need to be addressed in SOME manner.

I realize it will definitely be walking a minefield blindfolded, while juggling nitroglycerin but...............

I can say that HER having full custody and me being relegated to "Good Time Weekend Dad " is unequivocally OFF THE TABLE PERIOD !!! Like I said, she wants to live with him that's her choice, but there hasn't been a SINGLE person that has said my concerns over his past and even recent history of violence, specifically towards women is something I should ignore or not be concerned about my daughter being exposed to.

I DO have to call my attorney tomorrow and get clarification on something. The order says she had overnight with the kids from Sun 9AM to Mon 6pm but with NO DATES. Its clear that when it was written that the dates were omitted because it was covering the holiday weekend that just passed and it must have been assumed by the Court staff that there wouldn't be a delay on today's hearing. I've been told that she has said she's getting the kids again THIS Sun and Mon " the easy way or the hard way". So I need to get clarification if that statement of Sun 9AM to Mon PM also applies to THIS weekend.

As much as I want her to see the kids, my daughter has school on Monday morning. I don't have a problem if she wants to see them SUNDAY, but the way I read the order is I HAVE temp custody , so the ball is in my court.

There's also the SERIOUS questions I have, or maybe a better description would be more of " after everything and all the false allegations, I'm still willing to trust you " or something like that. I dunno, still working on it in my head.

Suggestions ??